Saturday, November 19, 2011

Manners by Emily Post


“Manners are a sensitive awareness of the feelings of 
others. If you have that awareness, you have good 
manners, no matter which fork you use”




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Meaning of life by Nelson Henderson


“The true meaning of 
life is to plant trees
under whose shade 
you do not expect
to sit”









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Success by Denis Waitley

“Success is almost totally dependent upon drive and 
persistence. The extra energy required to make another 
effort or try another approach is the secret of winning”


 

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Happiness by John Barrymore

“Happiness often sneaks in through a door you didn’t 
know you left open”



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Never apologise by Benjamin Disraeli

“Never apologise for showing feeling. When you do so, 
you apologise for the truth”


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Swallowing evil words by Winston Churchill

“By swallowing evil 
words unsaid, no one 
has ever harmed his 
stomach”












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Doubt by Hewyood Brown

“I doubt whether the world 
holds for anyone a more 
soul-stirring surprise than 
the first adventure with
ice cream”















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Two pennies from Chinese proverb

“When you have only two pennies left in the world, 
buy a loaf of bread with one, and a lily with the other”



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One word by Thomas Jefferson

“The most valuable
of all talents is that 
of never using two 
words when one 
will do”









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Destiny by Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

“Destiny grants us
our wishes, but in its
own way, in order to 
give us something 
beyond our wishes”








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Memories by Robert Brault

“When you have 
brought up kids, 
there are memories 
you store directly 
in your tear ducts”









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Do what you can do by John Wooden

“Don’t let what you can’t do stop you from doing 
what you can do”


 
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Angers by Elizabeth Kenny

“He who angers you conquers you”
 

 

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Modesty by Confucius

“He who speaks without modesty will find it difficult 
to make his words good”



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Action by Ernest Hemingsay

“Never mistake motion 
for action”



















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Gratitude by Zig Ziglar

“Of all the “attitudes” we can acquire, surely the 
attitude of gratitude is the most important and by 
far the most life-changing”


 
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Humble by John Templeton

“If we become increasingly humble about how little 
we know, we may be more eager to search”


  
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Speech by Xenocrates

“I have often regretted my speech, never my silences” 



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Attitude by Lou Holtz


“Ability is what 
you’re capable 
of doing. Motivation 
determines what you 
do. Attitude 
determines
how well 
you do it”





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Successful people by Brian Tracy

“If you could find out what the most successful people 
did in any area and then you did the same thing over 
and over, you’d eventually get the same result they do” 


  
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Become successful by Harvey Mackay

“People begin to become
successful the minute they 
decide to be”


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Artist by Pablo Picasso

“Every child is an artist. The problem is how to remain 
an artist once he grows up”



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Communication by Peter F. Drucker

“The most important
thing in communication 
is hearing what isn’t 
said”










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Body by unknown author

“Your body speaks so loudly, I can’t hear what you say” 








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Stress by David Allen

“Most of the stress 
people experience 
comes from 
inappropriately 
managed commitments 
they make or accept”







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Nostalgia by Owens Lee Pomeroy

“Nostalgia is like a grammar lesson: You find the 
present tense, but the past perfect”







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Decisiveness by Brian Tracy

“Decisiveness is a characteristic of high-performing 
men and women. Almost any decision is better than 
no decision at all”



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Looking by Joe Navarro

“The problem is that 
most people spend 
their lives looking... 
but not truly seeing”











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Small things by David Allen

“Small things done 
consistently, in strategic 
places, create major 
impact”
















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Language by Radclyffe Hall

“Language is surely too small a vessel to contain these 
emotions of mind and body that have somehow 
awakened a response in the spirit” 





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Self-development by Brian Tracy

“If you wish to achieve worthwhile things in your 
personal and career life, you must become a 
worthwhile person in your own self-development”



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Mastered time by Anthony Robbins

“Once you have mastered time, you will understand
how true it is that most people overestimate what they 
can accomplish in a year – and underestimate what
they can achieve in a decade”



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Man’s mind by Sir James Mackintosh

“The powers of a man’s mind are directly 
proportioned to the quantity of coffee he 
drinks”



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Inner light by Swami Shivananda

“All the lights of the world cannot be compared even 
to a ray of inner light of the self”



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Quality of lives by Anthony Robbins

“The way we communicate with others and with 
ourselves ultimately determines the quality of
our lives” 



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Great acts by Lao Tzu

“Great acts are made of 
small deeds”


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Eyes by unknown author

“When the eyes say one thing, and the tongue another, 
a practical man relies on the language of the first”



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Saturday, November 12, 2011

Phrases by Paula Rinehart

“God invest power and strength in a man for 
a reason. The question is, how, throughout 
his life, will he use that power?”



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“The work a man does
is what reminds him on
a daily basis that God 
equips and calls him to exercise his strength on 
behalf of others”



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“Being a woman who understands a man – perhaps better 
than he understands himself – will allow you to see beyond 
his fears or defeats.”
 



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“Most guys make internal shifts in the way 
they do life and relationships because a 
woman has helped them see what they 
often can’t”


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“A man changes as he steps into moments of inadequacy ... 
and realises that what he brings to the table is, mysteriously, enough”




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Each man has his own 
mix of strengths and weaknesses. And often, 
you don’t get a particular strength unless you accept 
its corresponding weakness”



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“Expecting too little from a man 
may mean, unfortunately, that 
too little is what you get.”















 
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“The form of respect a man usually mentions first 
.... is his longing for a woman who knows him and 
loves him to be his foremost cheerleaders”




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“Offering respect to a man invites him to look 
up, in search of the God who made him, as he reaches inside for what God has put in him”



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“There’s much to be gained from conflict 
in a close relationship, especially if you think 
of disagreement as an extended dialogue”




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"In any conflict, there's the part that's obvious 
and the part that's hidden" 



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“Whatever form “freaking out” takes 
in your relationship
– be it biting words or 
stonewalling – that’s 
the signal to stop”





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“If you hold up a negative lens, you’ll see what you expect 
to see. Your assumptions will a appear to be confirmed – 
even though they’re wrong”



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“Stopping long enough to validate 
the other person’s feelings, experience, 
or opinions.... allows new possibilities
to be entertained”















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“Empathy for most men, is a slowly learned skill. It doesn’t 
come naturally”


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“It’s a soul-stretching 
exercise to try to hear 
a man deeply ... and
to feel heard yourself”







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Friends in Proverbs 13.20

He who walks with wise men will be wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm”




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A cool spirit in Proverbs 12.18


“There is one who speaks 
rashly like the thrusts of a sword. But the tongue of 
the wise brings healing”










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Forgiving in Ephesians 4.32



“Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each 
other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you.”


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Confession in Hebrews 10.23-24


“Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without 
wavering ... and let us consider how to stimulate one 
another to love and good deeds”



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Walk in Ephesians 4:1-2


“Walk in a manner worthy of the
calling with which you have been 
called, with all humility and 
gentleness, with patience, showing tolerance for one another in love”











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“Humility of mind in Philippians 2:3-4


“Do nothing from selfishness or 
empty conceit, but with humility 
of mind regard one another as 
more important than yourselves; 
do not merely look out for your 
own personal interests, but also 
for the interests of others”









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Mutual understanding by Paul Tournier

“We must be reminded that the first condition for mutual understanding is .... the willingness to understand. All the conversations of our world are, for the most part, dialogues 
of the deaf”



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Phrases by Paula Rinehart

“We are better able to 
love what we understand. 
And loving and being loved is the main way we 
reflect the glory of God”





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“God has given you eyes to see. 
And those eyes can be a man’s 
most reliable mirror of who he 
is and who he can be”